Category Archives: Calvin

All about Calvin

Sick

Down

  • Calvin was sick most of this week. I blame it on all the sugar he had last weekend.
  • While Calvin was sick, I barely exercised and also tended to eat a lot of chocolate. Not a good combination. Not surprisingly I gained weight. I aim to keep my BMI just under the “overweight” designation and this week it went over. So, I really need to knuckle down, eat small portions of healthy food, and exercise a lot the next couple of weeks. It’s so much easier to have good intentions than to actually implement them . . .
  • I’m way behind at work and taking time off to stay with Calvin didn’t help.

Ups

  • I finally installed blackout shades in Calvin’s room on Tuesday. To my shock, this seems to allow him to nap in his room. For the last several months, I’ve been walking multiple hours every Sunday so Calvin would take a nap in the stroller. Pretty good exercise but there are other ways I’d prefer to spend my Sunday afternoon. I’m hoping he slept because his room is finally dark enough during the day. The real test will be this Sunday.
  • While Calvin had a fever and was much cuddlier than usual, he wasn’t exceptionally cranky which was a lifesaver. I’m not sure I could have handled a cranky toddler for four full days.
  • I did get my basic chores done this week. I would have preferred to check a few more things of my cleaning schedule but I suppose I should be thankful I was able to do even basic cleaning with Calvin home most of the week.
  • Calvin went to daycare today! It was wonderful to go back to my normal weekday routine.
  • The weather was perfect today. After I picked Calvin up from daycare we went to one of our local parks and Calvin ran around for about an hour before it was time to go home.

Calvin Moment

  • Calvin has started to become really insistent on helping me in the kitchen as I make supper. Sadly, by the time he actually is helpful, I suspect this phase will have passed. However, currently he’s consistently asking me to pick him up so he can help stir and wash the dishes. I let him stir a fair amount though he was a little too vigorous with our quinoa salad which ended up splattered over the counter and floor. He had more success loading the dishwasher. I gave him a fair amount of silverware and he carefully picked up each piece and put it in the silverware bin in the dishwasher.

2nd Birthday

Down

  • Last night I went to bed around 9:30 exhausted. A little after 10 I was awakened to the sound of Calvin screaming. I went to investigate and he was crying in the middle of his room. As soon as he saw me, he flung himself into my arms. I tried to calm him down but he was inconsolable. I sat in the rocking chair and held him. He’d put his head down for a couple of minutes and then cry out and change position. It seemed to me that he was hurting. I blame it on teething. I’m pretty sure he has another set of molars coming in. Anyway, I left him to go downstairs and retrieve some ibuprofen. I gave it to him but, sadly, it doesn’t work right away. So Calvin dozed fitfully for about 45 min until it started working and then slipped into a deeper sleep. I manage to transfer him back to his own bed around 11:30. Since I was already tired, losing more than an hour of sleep was not ideal.

Ups

  • Nana and Grandpa, Jaeger’s parents, visited arriving Thursday morning and just left this evening. Yesterday Nana, Calvin, and I went to the children’s museum in Denver. Calvin had a lot of fun. I think the highlight of the trip was a big fire truck that the kids could scramble up and down on. They also had little fireman hats and jackets for the kids to wear.
  • Calvin turned two today. We had some people over to church and had an Asian-themed meal featuring Jaeger’s Sushi. Then we had German Chocolate Cake with Coconut Sorbet for dessert.

Calvin Moment

  • In church today they sang happy birthday to Calvin. I had just finished playing offertory so Nana and Grandpa were watching him. He stood up on one of their knees and beamed graciously at the congregation the entire time they sang to him. I think he’ll make an excellent benevolent dictator.

Piano Playing

Down

  • It’s very hard for Jaeger and I to find a good equilibrium in caring for Calvin.

Ups

  • I’m starting to get adjusted to the time change.
  • Calvin did take a nap both yesterday and today though for a while I wasn’t sure he was going to.
  • Finished reading An Unlikely Countess, by Jo Beverly, yesterday and The Lifecycle of Software Objects, by Ted Chiang, today. Very different books but both were good. I’m also currently listening to The Blessing of a Skinned Knee, by Wendy Mogel. I listened to it before I had Calvin but am re-listening to it now.
  • I’ve been exercising consistently for several months now.
  • Calvin’s birthday is this Saturday and he will be two. Jaeger’s mother (and possibly father) will be coming out. Jaeger is going to make Sushi for lunch and we’re going to having German Chocolate Cake for dessert. It’s a really strange combo but both should be good :-)

Calvin Moment

  • I got called Friday night and asked if I could play piano for Cradle Roll as a sub yesterday. I said that I could try but I wasn’t sure how Calvin would deal with it. To my surprise, it mostly worked. Calvin did spend one song wrapped around my middle as I tried to play over him. Also, for a couple of songs he was a little too enthusiastic and banged on the top keys as I was playing a couple of songs. However, I think the other parents were amused more than anything else. Every time Calvin managed to sneak in a banging session on the piano another kid would come over and try their luck. It’s very interesting trying to play music while intermittently reaching out and preventing other hands from helping.

Grandma’s Visit

Down

  • I hate spring time change. I’ve been getting 8 hours of sleep every night and am still exhausted.

Ups

  • I had a really bad day Wednesday but after Jaeger took Calvin for his night time routine I went to our local Borders. They have a Seattle’s Best Coffee Shop in there and it makes some of the best hot chocolate I’ve had at a coffee shop (which sadly wouldn’t take much). They top the hot chocolate with whipped cream, white chocolate shavings, and provide a chocolate stick to stir it all together.
  • Mom came to visit Calvin on Thursday. On Saturday night Mom and I went to a “girls night out” at a church member’s house and watched The Young Victoria. Sunday night, mom babysat Calvin while Jaeger and I went out to dinner and ate ice cream. Monday night we celebrated Calvin’s birthday (part 1) and ate Pineapple Upside Down Cake (there will be more cake on his real birthday).
  • I broke down and replaced my lost iPod Nano with a black 16GB 5th gen iPod Nano. Unlike my failed Sony Walkman experience, the iPod connected flawlessly to my Windows 7 computer.

Calvin Moment

  • Calvin has started to randomly repeat my phrases as I talk. I’ll be talking to myself or someone else and out of the blue he’ll say exactly what I just said. I guess it’s time to be extra careful about what I say in front of him.

Simplification

  • Haven’t done anything recently.

Long Weekend

After Calvin was born I started dreading long weekends. Calvin is very attached to schedules and having three days at home always seemed to disrupt life too much. However, I think this long weekend was fairly successful.

Sabbath, I left the house around 9 and Calvin and I went to church. I had to go practice for music next week at someone else’s house at 4 that afternoon so instead of going home or to the Carbon Valley Library, I drove to the Westminster library. Per our normal routine, Calvin fell asleep on the way there (driving is one of the few ways to force him to nap) and I sat in the car a couple of hours reading waiting for him to wake up. Once he woke up, we went and played in the children’s section for a while before heading to our appointment. We didn’t get home till around 6:30. Fortunately, Jaeger was able to pick up pizza so we were able to eat as soon as we got home.

Sunday I had the day off from work but we had the babysitter come over anyway. I think she’s working out very well. Calvin seems to like her a lot. I went down to the basement and spent most of the time scanning mementos from past years. I plan to scan most of the papers and then get rid of them. I never look at them anyway so they might as well just be in a digital form. Afterwards, I took Calvin for a walk in the stroller so he’d take a nap and when he woke up, we went grocery store shopping.

Today we went on a short hike at Chautauqua. Calvin seemed in good spirits the whole time. Unfortunately, the last 5 minutes of the hike he tried to fall asleep. He had his eyes closed for a moment before I caught it and kept him awake. The only reason I did this is because we would have needed to transfer him to the car and it’s much better if we can get him to sleep in the car where we can just sit and wait for him to wake up. We went and had lunch at Tokyo Joes and Calvin impressed Jaeger by being able to eat with chopsticks better than me (which isn’t saying much but still seems pretty amazing for a toddler). We then made a brief stop by an Indian grocery store before heading home. Unfortunately, this is the point where we planned Calvin should nap and he didn’t oblige. While I think he would have been happier without a nap, he did seem to survive fairly well without one.

Down

  • Calvin slept very well until around 5:30 this morning. Unfortunately, I chose to go to bed late last night at 11 and so really could have used an extra hour of sleep.

Ups

  • I’ve been finding all sorts of interesting books to read, mostly about home selling. I tend to get obsessive in my quest for information (a characteristic shared by my husband as evidenced by his “India Shelf.”). I started researching pregnancy 2 years before I planned (and did) get pregnant. Likewise, I’m now researching house selling as we’re thinking of moving in a little over a year.
  • Several weeks ago I created a spreadsheet of house cleaning chores I needed to do and how often. I’ve been doing the routine stuff all along but I decided I needed to get more systematic to make sure I remembered to do the rarer types of things like dust off the fan blades, etc. At first, it felt like I kept adding more things to the schedule without being able to cross anything off but I’m slowly making it through my checklist.

Calvin Moment

  • “Parent-Teacher conferences” for Calvin’s daycare were today. Since Jaeger had the day off he got to go to it also. The teacher went through the checklist of things that toddlers might be able to do and offered comments on Calvin’s daily routine. Basically she said he’s doing well and we don’t need to be worried about anything. The teacher said that it was obvious Calvin had an engineering mind. During one day, there were a couple of children clustered by the toy shelf. They wanted to get a xylophone that was behind two other toys. Calvin was the only one to think of pushing the other toys aside so he could reach back and get the toy (this is a complicated skill? It’s often hard for me to know what I should or shouldn’t expect a toddler to think of by himself). Also, when a seat he wanted to sit on was already taken, he built his own using some gymnastic mats they have. He also likes to do things his own way (<sarcasm>isn’t that a surprise?</sarcasm>). The last time he was given playdough to play with, he decided to play with the playdough containers but stacking them up instead of the actual playdough.
  • Calvin has started indicating when he needs to use the potty even when he has a diaper on. This is a fairly new skill. I think we’re going to try having him potty train at daycare again.

Simplification

  • As mentioned above, I went through about 1/2 a box of old cards, pictures, and other memories and scanned them in and then threw away the physical item.

Toddler Bed

Monday night Calvin learned how to climb out of his crib. Calvin has never liked going to sleep. Once he’s asleep, he sleeps very soundly but getting him to sleep is much more of an art than a science. For some reason, Jaeger tends to have a better magic touch than I do. I don’t remember why, but it seems like Jaeger tried to put Calvin to bed later than usual. It didn’t work well. I was working on changing the batteries in our smoke detectors when I noticed that Jaeger tweeted, “Calvin can climb out of his crib.” This surprised me a little since every time I saw him try he wasn’t close. However, I figured Calvin probably wouldn’t be able to consistently climb out of the crib for a bit and so we had time to transition him to a toddler bed. We were not so lucky. Shortly after the tweet Jaeger came downstairs and informed me that Calvin had climbed out of his crib twice in a row. The second time he put Calvin back in the crib and then came down to consult with me. I went upstairs and opened the bedroom door to discover Calvin right behind it grinning widely at me.

For the next half-hour we scrambled around trying to get Calvin’s room into a semi-safe state for him to sleep in when not contained in a crib. We put his crib mattress on the floor and tried to quickly child-proof the room. We hadn’t done a thorough job of child proofing previously because we were either always in the room with him or he was stuck in the crib without access to anything interesting.

Unfortunately, the upstairs rooms do not heat well in the winter (or cool in the summer). Up to this point, we’ve had a space heater in Calvin’s room but this did not seem safe any longer with him being able to roam at will. We moved the space heater out and then dressed Calvin in a wonderful “snowsuit” that we use as an extremely warm pair of pajamas. This worked fairly well the first night.

I checked on Calvin throughout the night and, not surprisingly, he didn’t stay on his mattress. He did start out on his mattress but when I checked around 2 he had wiggled over to underneath the window. When I checked immediately after getting up in the morning, he had wiggled over to the opposite side of the room by the closet.

Circumstances became even more complicated last evening when our heater stopped working consistently. It would work for a couple of minutes and then stop and require some fiddling with the thermostat before it could be turned back on. We dressed Calvin in two layers of clothes, one of which being the snowsuit. In addition, we opened his door after he went to sleep and put the space heater in the hallway between our two bedrooms. I blocked off Calvin’s bedroom with a box. If he was awake, he would have easily climbed over it but I was counting on most of his wandering throughout the night being while half-asleep. This worked fairly well. The upstairs stayed a cozy 65 degrees due to the space heater even though the main level got down to around 55.

I was very fortunate to be able to get someone to come and look at our furnace first thing today. He said our flame sensor was dirty which was preventing the furnace from staying on. He cleaned it up and then asked if I wanted him to do a full maintenance of the furnace system. I knew that we were overdue for one so I told him yes. Since he worked on the furnace, it appears to be behaving.

This afternoon I worked on Calvin’s room to get it into a more toddler friendly format. I got most of the crib converted to a toddler bed (though I needed Jaeger’s assistance for one part since I was lacking appropriate screws). This will be Calvin’s third night outside his crib. I hope it goes well . . .

Down

  • Our Sunday babysitter has quit. This is not surprising since she moved down to Denver. However, it’s always inconvenient to go through the process of finding another babysitter. Fortunately, she was able to suggest someone else that we’re currently in the process of evaluating.

Ups

  • I cleaned the inside of the refrigerator Monday and the outside on Tuesday. It now sparkles.
  • My new aerobic step has arrived. I got my old aerobic step while I was still in college. It is a ghastly teal and purple color that looks like this one. Every time I see it I cringe but it has worked well for many years. However, the top mat started pealing off a couple of years ago and now has gotten to the point that it’s becoming dangerous. I decided if I was going to replace it, I needed to get one with a color scheme I could stand. It turns out my only other good option was a black/grey version. However, I think black and grey is a reasonable color combination. I ordered it last week and it arrived yesterday. I was momentarily panicked when I saw it was packaged in the default teal/purple box. However, I opened the box up and was relived to discover the more boring grey/black step. The only other downside is it smells very plasticy. However, my old one did too when it was new so hopefully the smell goes away soon.
  • Like everywhere else, we’ve been having cold weather this week. Our school district has canceled school for the last two days. I had a meeting Tuesday morning and was trying to figure out what to do if daycare closed. However, I was very happy to learn that daycare stayed open.

Calvin Moment

  • Calvin can now take off and put on his sweatpants by himself. This is a very good sign for potty training. However, I think his execution could use some refinement. When he decides he needs to use the potty he pulls down his pants immediately, no matter how far away from the potty he is. Then he waddles over to the potty with his pants down by his ankles. It’s really funny to watch. He looks kind of penguin-like when he does it.

Simplification

  • I entered into another book weeding project on Monday. This time I focused on our religious section. I discovered we have 9 NIV Bibles along with duplicates for quite a few other versions also. I pared down our selection to one of each version unless there was a sentimental reason to keep a specific Bible. I also managed to weed out quite a few other books. Some books, such as All the Women of the Bible I had been keeping in case we had a girl and she also enjoyed learning about interesting women in the Bible. However, I suspect this will appeal much less to Calvin so I got rid of that collection also. I also organized the guest bedroom closet and managed to donate another 3 boxes of clothing and books.