Snuggling

Downs

  • N/A

Ups

  • The house is clean!
  • I had a really good conversation with another sys admin from Douglas County. Sounds like there are several projects we’re both going to be working on this year so maybe we can join forces.

Cute Calvin Moment

  • We’ve decided Calvin is a High Needs Uncuddly baby. Thus, when he woke up from his morning nap today and seemed content to snuggle a bit, I was shocked. I picked him up and when he laid his head on my shoulder I decided to sit in the rocking chair and rock him a little bit. He stayed snuggled up to me for almost 10 minutes before converting back to the very active baby I’m use to.

Simplification

  • Today I completely emptied my “Weld Medical” folder. I haven’t been on the HPLD health insurance plan for over a year now. However, for some reason, I had kept all the handouts from previous benefits meetings. Not sure why. In any case, they’re gone now.

Food Diary

Food Diary

Downs

  • N/A

Ups

  • I was pretty productive at work today and got several things done that I had been avoiding.
  • Calvin went down for his morning nap fairly easy. To avoid a repeat of yesterday, I pushed his nap later by 15 minutes and that seemed to do the trick. During his nap, I had time to exercise, shower, and get a little extra work done before he woke up.

Cute Calvin Moment

  • Calvin has almost figured out how to crawl out of the bathtub. Calvin isn’t a huge fan of baths. This is probably because he doesn’t take an afternoon nap so is exhausted by the time we give him a bath at night. He wants us to hold him instead of spending the time splashing around in the water. Usually, he stands up at the edge of the bath tub and holds up his arms trying to convince me to pick him up. However, today, he decided to take matters into his own hands and put his knee on the edge of the bathtub and tried to heave himself over. He isn’t quite strong enough to make this work yet but he’s very close.

Simplification

  • I spent 45 minutes filing financial papers today, many of them tax related, and only got through 2/3 of the pile. While filing, I realized that our file cabinets were running out of space. When it comes to financial documents, I’m an obsessive pack rat. However, I decided the file cabinet was getting out of control so I looked up the official recommendations on how to long to keep various documents. I’m planning to deal with one category at a time. Today, I shredded our old Xcel energy statements. It turns out that I had statements dating back to our first apartment in Colorado.

Food Diary
In an attempt to keep my eating under control, I’m adding another section to my daily entry. Like the simplification section, it’s at the end so it can be easily skipped by everyone but me :-) Before I had Calvin, I used software from Nutribase to keep track of the calories I consumed. I love the program and tracking every calorie definitely appealed to my obsessive detail-oriented personality. However, now I just don’t have the time for that level of precision. Instead, I’m just going to do a basic list of what I ate during the day. At the very least, it hopefully will keep me accountable when I considering sneaking into the freezer for my 3rd cookie of the day :-)

Books

Downs

  • I’ve gained a couple of pounds which isn’t good since I haven’t made it back to my pre-pregnancy weight yet. It’s because my sugar craving got out of control the last couple of weeks and when Calvin was sick I didn’t exercise as much. Fortunately, the sugar craving has subsided somewhat so I’m hoping to get back on track.

Ups

  • I started reading Mine till Midnight by Lisa Kleypas yesterday and am gobbling it up. I stayed up more than an hour past my bedtime last night reading it.
  • I had trouble putting Calvin down for a nap this morning but I still had time to finish most of my money tasks.

Cute Calvin Moment

  • Calvin has started pointing at pictures as I read to him. He’s been interacting with the books for quite a while. He loves turning book pages and often will pat the pictures with his hand. However, I hadn’t seen him point before.

Simplification

  • I finally got around to removing the cat poetry magnates from our fridge. They were well within Calvin’s reach and he has reached the point where he has started to put random things in his mouth.

Teething, again.

Downs

  • Calvin got up before 5:30 again but luckily I felt fairly rested.
  • Daycare reports that Calvin has two teeth coming in on the bottom. Most likely, this means that Calvin will be very restless at night for the next couple of weeks and neither Calvin nor I will get much sleep.

Ups

  • Calvin took a longer nap than usual this morning so I got a lot of stuff done.
  • We had book club tonight. Turned out that only Jaeger and I were able to make it but we had a good discussion with each other. We’ve decided to read The Dragons of Babel by Michael Swanwick for next month.

Cute Calvin Moment

  • I always assumed that Calvin would be a back sleeper since he was religiously put on his back to sleep as a newborn. In fact, at one point he could roll onto his stomach but not his back and he would wake me up screaming furiously at the indignity of being on his stomach. However, ever since he was capable of rolling both directions, he has chosen to sleep on his stomach. He looks really funny sleeping on his stomach. Calvin doesn’t turn his head or anything. He sleeps ramrod straight with his nose pressed into the mattress. I suppose that might be one reason parents are recommended to buy very firm mattresses for babies.

Simplification

  • I cleaned underneath the bathroom sink on our main level. I was startled to discover I still had breast milk storage bags under there.

Calvin Carriers

Downs

  • Jaeger tried to take Calvin on a hike and it didn’t go well. I suspect that the hiking backpack carrier is still a little large for Calvin to comfortably fit in it. You might wonder why I list this as a down for me since Jaeger is the one that had to deal with the bawling. However, it’d be nice if Calvin learned to like the hiking backpack since we would then have more recreational options on the weekend.

Ups

  • Today was Jaeger’s day to get up with Calvin. Unfortunately for Jaeger, Calvin woke up at 5:30 and refused to go back to sleep. I burrowed into the covers and was grateful I wasn’t the one that had to get up.
  • Left Calvin with Jaeger and went to a baby shower by myself. It felt a little weird to be someplace without Calvin.

Cute Calvin Moment

  • When I got back from the shower, I decided to try taking Calvin grocery store shopping by myself in order to give Jaeger a chance to recover from the failed hike. I used the Beco carrier to carry him around while I shopped and it worked out well. Calvin curled up against my back and flirted with everyone passing by. I was particularly bemused when random men commented on how cute Calvin was. I was also stopped by an older couple who have a 6 month grandson. They thought Calvin looked a lot like him so they chatted with me for a couple of minutes comparing developmental milestones.

Simplification

  • I sorted through my shoe collection. I didn’t get rid of as many shoes as I was hoping but I did managed to throw one pair away and designate several others as thrift store contributions.

Separation Anxiety

Downs

  • Calvin seems to have finally reached the separation anxiety phase. Ok, I know I was worried he hadn’t gotten there sooner. However, now it is more difficult to pass him off to random strangers when I do things at church.

Ups

  • Went to the library after church and picked up Mine Till Midnight and Seduce me at Sunrise by Lisa Kleypas. Previously, I had read Tempt Me at Twilight not realizing at first that it was the third in the series. I enjoyed it so I’m hoping I’ll like the first two also. It’s always nice to have a good stockpile of historical romances in my “to be read” pile since they do the best job of relaxing me enough to sleep at night.

Cute Calvin Moment

  • Today was my first day back doing slides at church since I went into the hospital a year ago. I’ve been putting off getting back on the schedule because I wasn’t entirely sure how I was going to juggle it and Calvin at the same time. However, by now I have a reasonable number of people I know who will watch Calvin while I do other stuff. While I had arranged for someone to take care of Calvin during church, I hadn’t thought to get someone for Sabbath School time which is when the praise songs are practiced. I decided to take my Beco carrier to church and see how long I could keep Calvin happy while carrying him on my back. It worked beautifully. Calvin clung to my back the entire time like a little monkey just as happy as could be. Having him on my back meant that I didn’t have to worry about him tumbling down the stairs or getting in my way while I worked on the computer. Plus, it was kind of nice to have him cuddled so close. The only problem I ran into was I couldn’t feed him his bottle while he was on my back. Maybe they need a camelbak apparatus for babies.

Simplification

  • I didn’t have the energy to put up much Christmas stuff this year. All I put up was a couple of Christmas stockings and our Christmas wreath. The Christmas wreath is decorated with ornaments and is my Christmas tree substitute as we don’t have the room for even a small tree. In spite of the sparseness of the decorations, I didn’t get around to packing them up until tonight. You think I would have learned my lesson since I procrastinated last year and ended up in the hospital the day before I was planning to take down the decorations. In any case, our house has finally moved out of the Christmas season.

Food

Downs

  • I had trouble getting Calvin to take his morning nap. Normally, he’s ready for a nap about 2 1/2 hrs after he gets up. However, today I couldn’t convince him to take a nap till an hour after that. This put me behind schedule for starting work on time. However, we have a new project I’ve been working on that’s been requiring night work so I think I’m still okay regarding hours for the week.

Ups

  • I made pretty good pie crust today. I can bake most things ok but pie crust is still a challenge for me. Today I made a savory Samosa pie and used the “Flakey Butter Crust in a Mixer” from BakeWise (though I needed to add an additional 2 tbs of water, probably because of Colorado). It turned out better than most pie crusts I’ve made, very flakey. I think I need to tweak the technique a bit but other than that it worked well.
  • I decided to pick up some ice cream for a supper treat on the way home from picking up Calvin at daycare. At King Soopers, I carefully examined my ice cream choices. I’m pretty picky when it comes to desserts; I want them to be worth the calories. I thought that a coconut flavored ice cream might pair well with our supper. While scanning for coconut ice cream, I saw Coconut Crunch by Boulder Ice Cream. I casually scanned the ingredients and then did a double take and started carefully reading the ingredients. When I finished, I started over again because I couldn’t figure out what I was missing. As far as I can tell, the “Coconut Crunch” ice cream doesn’t actually contain coconut. Please, go to their website, take a look at the ingredients and tell me I’m wrong. It doesn’t make sense. Anyway, I ended up picking a pint of Haagen Daazs Pineapple Coconut which was very good. Haagen Daazs is one of my favorite grocery store ice cream brands. They are high calorie compared to other brands but the ingredients are great and the taste is usually fantastic. If one is going to eat empty calories, you should make sure they are good empty calories :-)

Cute Calvin Moment

  • This morning Calvin decided he wanted to hold the bottle himself. Normally, I hold the bottle but he seemed pretty insistent so I let him. He sucked on it enthusiastically for a bit listening while I talked to him. At one point, I opened my mouth to say something and he looked at me and then shoved the bottle nipple into my mouth. I was startled so I laughed as I moved it out of my mouth. I guess laughing reinforced the idea to him because the rest of the morning feeding he kept trying to share with me.

Simplification

  • I cleaned out our snack shelf today. I threw some away, moved less commonly used stuff to the basement and organized the remaining snacks into three sections: nuts, processed snacks, and dried fruit.

Misc

Downs

  • I woke up with a sore throat and now I have a headache. I have a bad feeling I’m getting sick.
  • I’ve been stuck in a sugar craving cycle for the last week or so. It seems like I’m thinking of sugar all the time. We’re now out of candy so tonight for supper I had corn flakes with honey on top :S I know I should resist, especially since I’m working on getting sick, but I don’t. Fortunately, Calvin is too young to be affected by my horrible supper.

Ups

  • I got all my assigned housecleaning done today before heading to work.
  • I closed 10 of my 22 work orders at work today. I feel very productive but also very tired.
  • Calvin managed to feed himself little chunks of sweet potato today. We’re slowly making progress on the solid food front.

Cute Calvin Moment

  • For those of you that watched Ever After, do you remember the scene at the end where the Spanish princess is blubbering in Spanish trying to explain why she doesn’t want to marry the prince? Sometimes that’s what Calvin’s crying reminds me of. Often when I put him down to get a bottle or something else, he’ll start crawling towards me blubbering and speaking very emphatically in baby talk. I haven’t a clue what he’s saying but he’s very earnest as he says it. While I don’t like seeing him upset, his earnestness is very endearing.

Simplification

  • I packed away some more maternity clothes that were lingering in my closet.

Beco Carrier Arrives!

Downs

  • Calvin woke up at 1:30am last night and cried for a while but he did eventually go back to sleep so it could have been much worse.

Ups

  • Calvin went to daycare today! It was so nice to be able to concentrate on my work instead of juggling Calvin on one hip while I tried to talk on the phone and answer email.
  • I got my Beco baby carrier today. I’m flabbergasted by how much more comfortable it is than the Bjorn. Originally, I bought the Bjorn because it was the best carrier that Babies ‘R Us carried. I specifically went to Babies ‘R Us because I wanted to be able to try baby carriers on in-person but they had a fairly inferior selection available.
  • Since I was trying to work yesterday while taking care of Calvin, I sacrificed my weekly money time to work during Calvin’s nap. Today, I tried to play catch-up and successfully got all my receipts entered and a modest bit of exercise (not at the same time).

Cute Calvin Moment

  • Calvin refused to take a nap in his crib today. He didn’t cry but muttered for about 40 minutes while I worked on receipts. Finally, I gave up and took him out for a walk during which he fell asleep. In a way this was good as I got more exercise than I would have otherwise. Anyway, as I was bundling him up in the stroller, he had this really cute expression of happiness on his face, presumably because I was finally paying attention to him.

Simplification

  • I cleaned out one of my kitchen shelves and relegated a lot of stuff, such as my yogurt maker, to basement storage. I’m not entirely convinced I should keep my yogurt maker but I have a suspicion that once Calvin is school-age I might start doing more kitchen stuff again.

Airline Reservation Fun

Downs

Today I attempted to get tickets for Calvin and I to visit mom in March while Jaeger is in India. As recommended, I always buy a seat for Calvin when we fly so he can be secured in his car seat. However, since parents are allowed to hold children under 2 years of age on their lap for free, most just use a car seat if there’s an extra seat available. As a result, Frontier’s reservation page has 3 options: adult, child (2-17), and infant (lap only, no seat). Because I did want a seat for Calvin, I chose 1 adult and 1 child. Everything was fine until they asked for our birth dates. At that point, they told me that Calvin’s birth date was invalid for the fare specified. Looking back, I should have tried to book 2 adult tickets but that didn’t occur to me at the time.

Since buying tickets online had been thwarted, I grudgingly called their phone reservation system and talked to a nice lady. After more than 10 minutes of discussion, it appeared we finally had everything straightened out. However, I never received my confirmation email after we got off the phone. Several hours later, I called again and was informed that my email address had never been entered. The 1st lady had to start over a couple of times due to system glitches so that didn’t surprise me. I gave my email address and the 2nd reservation lady then asked for my name. I assume she wanted to double check that it was entered correctly so I told her it was “Gem, G-E-M, like a gemstone” (my real name). She then said, “no, not the name of the passenger, your name.” I assured her that was my name, she seemed a little abashed but told me everything was in order so I hung up. My email confirmation still didn’t arrive. It belatedly occurred to me that they probably had my first name misspelled (which often happens when I have to call people). I called back a 3rd time and told them I thought my first name and email address were entered incorrectly and this time spelled it out with the NATO phonetic alphabet. Sure enough, they had spelled it with a J instead of a G. This annoys me because every time I say my name to someone over the phone, I always say very distinctly, “Gem, G-E-M, like a gemstone.” People just don’t listen. Jaeger is completely correct when he tells me I should always spell it with the NATO phonetic alphabet. It’s just a hard habit to get into. Anyway, on the 3rd attempt I did get my email reservation.

Ups

  • I didn’t get as much work done today because Calvin was crankier than yesterday and refused to take an afternoon nap. However, in spite of that, it was a pretty relaxing day. I took Calvin outside and he had fun crawling around on our driveway and staring as the cars went by.

Cute Calvin Moment

  • Willow, our white cat, is Calvin’s first unattainable love. As soon as he catches site of her, he enthusiastically paddles toward her. She lets him get within a couple of feet and then bounds away at which point Calvin starts the whole process again. Calvin doesn’t seem nearly as interested in 5 who lets him grab handfuls of her hair when he tries to pet her. Today, Calvin seemed to spend more time than normal watching Willow. At one point, Willow was batting at the blind cords and Calvin, safely across the room, was laughing delightedly at her antics. I wonder at what point Willow will allow Calvin to touch her and if Calvin will still want to by then.

Simplification

  • I didn’t end up doing anything today.